TUESDAY, Aug. 31 (HealthDay News) -- People who "hook up" for casual
sex can have as rewarding a long-term relationship as those who take it
slowly and establish a meaningful connection before they have sex, says a
new study.
University of Iowa researchers analyzed relationship surveys and found
that average relationship quality was higher for people who took it slowly
than for those who became sexually involved in "hook-ups," casual dating,
or "friends with benefits" relationships.
However, having sex early on wasn't the reason for this disparity,
according to UI sociologist Anthony Paik. When he factored out people who
weren't interested in getting serious, he found that those who became
sexually involved as friends or acquaintances and were open to a serious
relationship were just as happy as those who dated but delayed having
sex.
The study analyzed a survey of 642 heterosexual adults in Chicago. To
measure the quality of the relationships, people answered questions about
how much they loved their partner, their level of satisfaction with
intimacy in the relationship, the future of the relationship, and how
their lives would be different if the relationship ended.
"We didn't see much evidence that relationships were lower quality
because they started off as hook-ups," Paik, an assistant professor in the
College of Liberal Arts and Sciences, said in a UI news release.
"The study suggests that rewarding relationships are possible for those
who delay sex. But it's also possible for true love to emerge if things
start off with a more 'Sex and the City' approach, when people spot each
other across the room, become sexually involved and then build a
relationship," he added.
The study is published in the August issue of the journal Social
Science Research.
More information
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