My
friend and colleague Glenn Treisman likes to tell about his ongoing
debate with patients, students, and other clinicians about what it means
to be truly addicted to something.
When
he asks whether cigarettes are addicting, Glenn says that many people
answer with an unhesitating, "Of course they are!" (Perhaps you're
thinking the same thing, especially if you are or have ever been a
smoker.) But if you're a smoker, Glenn next asks, "So--you're saying
that, to buy cigarettes, you'd be willing to sell your body, or steal
from your grandmother, or seek out treacherous armed people in dark
alleys?" And then, because no one would do such things for a cigarette,
you say, "Of course I wouldn't!"
The key question
According to Glenn, this question--What would you be willing to do to satisfy your craving?--separates those who crave, say, a cigarette from those who crave a truly addicting drug like cocaine or heroin.
Glenn's
point is that it's a shame to waste such a handy and valuable word like
"addiction" on behaviors that aren't driven by the frantic anxiety and
desperation that's behind a true addiction. To be addicted is to be
willing to destroy yourself to get the fix you crave.
The cravings of lab rats
Thus,
when a laboratory rat will push a button repeatedly or will even
tolerate a small electric shock in order to get a dose of nicotine, the
rat is demonstrating that it does indeed like nicotine. But the need of a
rat for nicotine is nothing like the rampant hunger of a rat accustomed to receiving cocaine.
Because cocaine is a genuinely addicting drug, the second lab rat will
push a button all day long, to the point of exhaustion, will neglect to
eat, and will allow itself to be so cruelly shocked for so long a time
that its skin becomes scorched. The craving for nicotine, although
painful, is pretty feeble in comparison.
Here are a few other examples that illustrate the difference between a habit that's difficult to overcome and an addiction.
Drinking alcohol
Not signs of addiction:
Getting drunk or stoned and doing self-destructive things while high,
like driving recklessly or getting into brawls or forgetting to use a
condom. These behaviors might make you a drunk or a stoner or an
accidental parent, but they don't make you an addict.
Addiction:
If you continue to get drunk or stoned every day, despite the fact that
these behaviors are bringing your world crashing down around your ears,
In that case, your cravings are pushing you across the line into
addiction.
Taking prescription tranquilizers
Not signs of addiction:
Feeling horribly ill when you suddenly stop taking a tranquilizer like
Valium or Xanax, and knowing that you're going to have to take another
pill to rid yourself of the misery. These feelings indicate that you've
become physically dependent on the drug and are going through withdrawal, but they still don't identify you as an addict.
Addiction:
Having to spend large portions of your days finding doctors and
pharmacies that don't know you, or forging prescriptions so you can get
more medication than your doctor is willing to prescribe for you.
Smoking cigarettes
Not a sign of addiction: Counting the minutes at work until you can go on break and smoke a cigarette.
Addiction:
Smoking in spite of your advanced lung disease, and having to puff on
your cigarettes through a tracheostomy hole in your throat, which was
put there by doctors so you can breathe. That behavior puts you over the top.